I'm a Hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner, Childbirth Educator, Trauma Cognisant
Therapist and Life Coach ~ in no particular order!
Both my children were planned, I loved being pregnant and found it very exciting!
I kept fit, active and healthy and had no problems.
The birth of my first child was an unexpectedly painful and frightening
2-day ordeal - a lonely agony of fear and failure, part of a hospital 'conveyor belt' system, complete
with chemical induction, pain-relieving drugs (what relief?), 'purple pushing' and forceps. I couldn't understand
why it was so horrible, assumed I was rubbish and struggled to enjoy being a mum. I think I bonded with
my son when he was about 12!
Four years later, dreading my next birth (or trying not to think about
it), a Yoga book introduced me to the techniques of controlled breathing, relaxation and visualisation. I'd never
practised yoga before, but I took on board the simple belief that I could control labour pain. Naive
maybe, but it worked!
Five hours of cheerful, comfortable labour with no pain relief (except
gas & air in the final 20 minutes) convinced me of the value of a more natural approach.
I now know that what I’d used during my second birth was self-hypnosis
and some years later, as a practising hypnotherapist I found HypnoBirthing®. Part of that training
involved Birthing Basics - taught by a midwife - and I finally understood why my birthing experiences were as they were.
It really helps knowing. I now know the 'failure' wasn't mine and it isn't inevitable for women to experience birth
as a painful ordeal.
In addition to my HypnoBirthing skills, I trained in Fertility through Hypnosis with Sjanie
Hugo - using techniques employed at the Zeta West Clinic in London.
Please contact me if you think I can help you in any way - even if you just want
to chat about possibilites.